this has crossed my mind a bit so like: any other wlw out there have a hard time identifying with “sapphic”? like it’s hard for me to describe why i don’t really vibe with it. it feels too safe and neat?? also, i don’t strictly associate it with femininity, but i do associate it with a kind of femininity/way of relating to being female that i don’t identify with. i don’t really feel or seek a connection to its classical origins and i don’t particularly find comfort or liberation in the romance(?) of being wlw it kind of denotes. it’s clearly very useful to a lot of people, but i’m just like… that’s not me??? is that a discussion that exists?